The Cheat Sheet Infidelity Book

Relationship Expert

Do you suspect your partner is cheating?

Have you or has someone you know been cheated on?

Are you recovering from infidelity?

Do you want to avoid dating cheaters?

Do you want to affair-proof your relationship?

If you answered “YES” to any of the above questions, “The Cheat Sheet” book is for YOU!
Infidelity Book 

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Cheating has become the proverbial lament heard around the world. Universal in its occurrence, cheating often leaves women broken and men shrugging their shoulders, declaring, “It’s just the way I am. It’s in my DNA.” (Note: In some circles, DNA stands for Dumb. Needy. Asshole.). So stop the cheater now! With its expert author team primed to out-wit even the sneakiest sleezeball, The Cheat Sheet uncovers the entanglement of infidelity with tools as simple as quizzes and as versatile as GPS systems. Each chapter reveals true infidelity stories, common cheating excuses and exposes the cheater’s thought process and patterns. Readers will learn how to catch a cheat in the act; which rules cheaters live by; how to deflect a cheater’s advances; how to forgive; and when there’s no choice but to forget and move on. Published by Adams Media, The Cheat Sheet teaches readers to recognize cheating, catch cheaters red-handed, and ultimately find a relationship that will make them happy for a lifetime.

Check out these amazing testimonials about “The Cheat Sheet,”
from celebrities, VIP’s and professionals!

“As a former host to one of the most popular infidelity shows, Cheaters, I have seen my fair share of heartbreak. I’ve seen the mistakes, the humility and the pain people go through because of affairs. So, how do we deal with this unfortunate part of relationships? In The Cheat Sheet, Ms. Frey and Ms. Alexander delve into this subject matter with full force, wit and refreshing honesty. Both experts in their own rights, they lay it out: If you think your partner might be cheating on you, they will show you every clue to look for. They will give you tools, a gadget guide and stellar advice on how to deal with infidelity and how to “affair-proof” your relationships. The authors manage to draw the reader into the secret lives of philanderers by giving first-hand accounts of cheating stories. The reader discovers how cheaters justify their acts, handle guilt, cope with double lives, and handle the search for commitment and outside gratification. There are important “tips of the trade,” valuable to both women and men. The Cheat Sheet is an excellent how-to guide to prevent and uncover cheating – every woman’s secret weapon. As Ariana Huffington put it, texting is the new lipstick on the collar. Let’s prevent these marks. Let’s catch cheaters, learn to think before we act, and perhaps we can better understand and attempt that ten letter word we have become so frightened of: commitment.”
~  Tommy Habeeb, Former writer, producer and host of the TV Show Cheaters

“Men cheat. Women cheat. Neither gender is immune. The Cheat Sheet not only gives you tools to catch a cheater, but tells you how to deal with cheating, recover from infidelity, and make your relationship completely affair-proof. It’s not just a book for women – men will learn valuable lessons as well. A great, fun, informational read and I recommend ABC make it a compulsory read for every couple who make it to the final rose!”
~  Matt Grant, ABC’s “The Bachelor” and Humanitarian Activist

“With Rea Frey’s and Stephany Alexander’s new sensation, “The Cheat Sheet,” no woman ever has to play the victim role again! Arming all women with the hard and fast tools necessary to be the Nancy Drew of their love lives, you can learn easy and cost-effective ways to catch your man cheating. As a marriage and family therapist, I would refer any of my clients to this fabulous resource.”
~  Alisa Ruby Bash, Beverly Hills Marriage & Family Therapist, EXTRA TV Relationship Expert

“Cheating brings relational harm to an inevitable outcome – that both parties and the relationship take a striking blow to its core. I have worked with many women in the aftermath of cheating – some who stayed, some who didn’t, some who did the cheating. Understanding the dynamics of cheating is at the root of being able to heal. The Cheat Sheet is a quick guide to survival tools for those plowing their way through this painful experience. Especially helpful is the gadget ware list that anyone trying to find the truth will need!”
~  Sandra L. Brown, M.A. The Institute for Relational Harm Reduction, author of How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved and Women Who Love Psychopaths: Inside the Relationships of Inevitable Harm with Psychopaths, Sociopaths & Narcissists

“In their new book, ‘The Cheat Sheet’, writing partners Stephany Alexander and Rea Frey, tackle the very relevant subject of infidelity thoroughly and honestly. What I loved is how they lay everything out for us women so clearly. For example, if you suspect your partner might be cheating, they will show you every clue to look for. Let me put if for you simply, if you even have a shadow of a doubt that your partner could be cheating, this book will shine a light not just on the subject, but directly into his eyes! It’s a must read for every woman.”
~  Kristi Frank, Celebrity diet guru and former star of Season #1 of NBC’s ‘The Apprentice.’ Her brand, ‘Slim & Fit Fast!’ promises to revolutionize the weight loss industry by delivering and guaranteeing dramatic results.

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About the Authors
Rea Frey is a food and relationship writer at She writes monthly recipes for Martha Stewart’s Whole Living site. She also writes a weekly food and relationship column at Cheeky Chicago, is the Senior Editor for Chic Galleria and runs a food blog called Clean Convenient Cuisine. Stephany Alexander is the author of “Sex, Lies an the Internet” – An Online Dating Survival Guide, a relationship, infidelity and dating expert and founder of Free Date Screening Service, one of the most popular women’s websites in the world.

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